Unwritten Rules
There are unwritten rules to doing things.
If such demeanor is portrayed, I guess people will just automatically drift away. Maybe it is not taken in the personal stride, or one haven't learnt to do so, much as they try to portray the years of wisdom that cannot be acquired overnight, in a few days, a few weeks or even a few months. Seriously, it can be seen as myopic by trying to be someone else.
Why try so hard when it will come naturally?
Drop the facade where you are hiding behind, come out of that shadow you are living in.
This message is dedicated to some people. Don't automatically assume you, as the reader is supposed to get this message. These are just some pent-up frustrations in me for quite a long time that I feel I should let it out. No point internalizing it and making myself miserable by having to keep it all. When we meet stubborn people who take a long time to understand this, it is just annoying.
This is especially to that Toastmaster who thinks he can ALWAYS get what he wants. Now, just get lost you moron.