Conversations that make you ponder

After our TM AGM yesterday,

A few of us had a good chatting session till 12 midnight.

Of which, I was asked a few questions that changed me.

1. Who are you?

2. What is confidence to you?

3. What is your definition of love and success?

Is love to you only love when someone loves you?

Or is it love to you when you can love someone else?

If you chose the first option, then you are always unhappy.

Because you need someone to love you then you are happy.

So when nobody loves you, you become unhappy.

Whereas if you choose to love someone, you are happier.

That's because you are happier knowing that you can love somebody or anybody.

A bit 'chim' but think through it to see whether there's an effect on you.

How about success?

Is success when you reach your goal?

Or is it success when you embark on your goal?

Some people see success as reaching their goal.

Some people see success as the process on embarking the goal.

If you are only happy when you reach your goal, then you are always unsatisfied.

If you are enjoying the process of embarking your goal, then you are always satisfied.

There is no right or wrong answers to these questions,

Because you define them youselves.

It's all in the mind I must say.

For the gap between knowledge and wisdom is application.